Friday, February 17, 2012

MY ESCAPADES

I am a nature-lover and love to do trekking, mountain climbing and the likes. I saw these pictures as I was scanning through my old pictures. So....ENJOY!!!






















Sunday, January 29, 2012

The Girl I Have Been

GRADE SCHOOL
Hearing someone shouting “tomboy” is just super ordinary. Yes, they’re referring to me. Who would have thought I’m not? The things I like are more like of boy stuffs. I do mingle with girls but I’m having so much fun on a boy’s crowd. I prefer water guns over dolls, cards over Chinese garter, punching over scratching…LOL

HIGH SCHOOL
Old-fashioned, flirt, trying hard, insensitive and lesbian is just a run of the mill. Keep hearing it every day. Duh?! I don’t give a damn, who cares? Don’t even care if someone just wants to befriend me because of an answer of a math problem. I don’t let others see my weakness. Thus, I was called insensitive. I like boy stuffs, so what do you expect?? I will mingle with girls who do make-ups and wears sexy clothes? I am more comfortable with big shirts and pants with matching rubber shoes; they can’t expect me to have fun with skirts, fitted clothes and high heels.  I am a sport-minded person and most girls love to wear doesn’t suit me. I love watching wrestling, UFC, basketball, suspense/thriller/action movies over to some dramatic shows or movies and honestly, if someone force me to watch some dramatic movie or show? I would end-up getting pissed with the main character doing all the crying stuff and some corny lines. It makes me want to puke! The result would be the vice-versa; I would hate the protagonist and end up loving the antagonist. Call me “ruthless”, that’s what I am and I don’t give a damn.

COLLEGE
“How did you do it?”
“Wow, you really eat a lot!”
“Don’t give her the microphone.”
“What a noise!”
“You’ve got lots of appeal.”
Just some of what I keep hearing throughout my college days. “A gal with a bottomless stomach”, that’s what my friends call me. True, I ate a lot. Well, what do you expect? I love eating and it’s one my favorite hobby. But who would have thought that I ate much of that a fat guy when I am so thin? Well, it’s metabolism baby.  True, I super love singing, and when you invited me in some karaoke?? Well, just a piece if warning I have this sort of “sickness” when I’m into it I will never give you the chance to sing. LOL
Oh well they say I’m good at it. The only problem is that when I started to sing I just can’t stop it! Whenever I got the grip of the microphone, you can’t really expect me to give that to someone else because I will continue to sing till I get tired and I don’t care if you cry. Believe it or not.
Got lots of appeal? Ummnn…no comment. LOL

The bottom line of this? Love yourself. Every individual is unique. But no matter how unique you are that you thought that you are abnormal or that no one loves you…well think twice! You are a special person and that there’s someone who loves you… who will make you pretty/handsome, like you are the only girl/boy in the world. It’s just you haven’t meet him/her yet. Be patient. At the right time, you will have somebody whom will treasure you more than you could ever imagine…

Are you with the right person?

It is a question in which every individual ask not just to themselves but also to other people close to them. Now let me tell you this, no one can actually tell you if he is the right man for you except YOURSELF. Other people might just know him because of what you’ve told them or he was with you when you hang-out with your friends. But other than that YOU are the only one who knows what his character is, what his good and what his worst at.

Mr. Right is within every man. It’s only up to you how you make that man become the right one for you.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

THEY SIMPLY DON'T UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER

I CAN'T UNDERSTAND MEN

If you dress nicely, he says you're a snob.
If you dress sexy, he says you're a slut.
If you argue with him, he says you're stubborn.
If you're quiet, he says you're stupid.
If you call him, he says you're needy and clingy.
If he calls you, he says you should be grateful.
If you don't love him, he'll try to win you.
If you love him, he'll leave you.
If you don't fuck him, he'll say you don't love him.
If you do, he'll say you're easy.
If you tell him your problems, he'll say you're irritating.
If you don't , he'll say you don't trust him.
If you lecture him, he'll say you're bitchy.
If he lectures you, it's because he "cares".
If you break a promise, you can't be trusted.
If he breaks it, he had to.
If you cheat, he'll expect it to be over.
If he cheats, he expects to be given another chance either way.



I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WOMEN

if you're well dressed, she thinks you're a playboy.
if you're not, she thinks you're a bum.
if you kiss her, you're not a gentleman.
if you praise her, she thinks you're lying.
if you don't, you're as good as nothing.
if you agree with all her likes, she abuses.
if you don't, she doubts your love.
if you don't, she accusses you of double-crossing.
if you visit another, she raises hell.
if she is visited by another....."eh! its natural for a girl.!"
if you're aminute late, she complains its hard to wait.
if you're on time, for hours she makes you wait.
if you propose love right away, you're a fresh guy.
if you postpone it later, she wonders why.
if you attempt romance, she says you don't respect her.
if you don't, she says you're dry.
if you contradict her, you're impossible.
if you don't, she thinks you're guillible. oh! woman.....you are so simple yet so complex so confusing yet so desirable



credits to the owner...

Social Networking Etiquette?!?!?!

Funny how people criticize someone else's status on any social networking site.

Every people we're given a chance to create their own account, right? Then it is just right for every people to do or post things in their own freewill. besides, it is not oneself who is accountable for every thing that is made.

I just don't understand why there are people who barge in or find it irrelevant or find it something stupid when someone is making a post, when at the first place "IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM." Instead of making a fuss out of that post, why not simply ignore it? Every people has it's own freewill, he/she can post a hateful, funny, dramatic stupid post and so? Who cares?

If that person's post is somewhat disturbing or pretty stupid, there's always an "X" button on your friend's list. HIT IT. Then, end of discussion.

You don't have to endure reading something stupid if it disturbs you. In the first place, why did you add that person? To know how's he/she been doing etc. or out of respect? Respect? There! Some people might have accept someone's friend request out of respect. Then, why not continue respecting that person? If they post something you find irritating, then simply IGNORE AND RESPECT.

Why is there are people who are too emotional in their posts? Don't you think they need someone to sympathize them? Or advice them because in real world no one understands them and thinking that maybe in the cyber world, there is someone they can rely on?

Why do people posts a picture of what they ate or tag you on something that for you "it isn't funny or interesting at all?" Don't you think that they just want you to try it out or want to taste it too or hoping that you were there when they it it? And tag you to those pictures because they want to share what they think is funny and maybe just maybe it'll make you laugh too?

There are many reasons why people do that. It's just that there are also people who are too narrow-minded to see those reasons behind. And for me, I don't find it distracting or stupid that some people have to make a fuss out of it.

People should have known that they can't tell other people what to do just to please them. I'm no hater, i just view it differently from other people. If you don't agree you're very much welcome to leave................... ;)

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Says the Heart

When I was in high school, i was very fond of reading essays and there's one that has been my favorite it's entitled "A piece of something". Actually, it talks about love. It really widen my eyes of what love really is. I tried to ask for my friend "Google" for help about this essay but unfortunately it's been reposted a couple of times that I couldn't find the original one (honestly just too tired to open up the sites hehe). However, I did found one which is more similar to what I have read. Here it is and enjoy! :)

A Piece Of Something..

While I was walking, I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don’t have. Then I realize that the happiest moment of all the people don’t necessarily have the best of everything: they just make the most of everything that comes along the way.

It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lost it but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives. In the gateway of my heart I put a sign that says, “No trespassing” but love came laughing and said, “I enter everywhere” Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies, love defies all reasons, love has no eyes. But definitely love is not blind love sees but it doesn’t mind. Love is when you take away feeling. The passion, the romance and you find that you still care for the person.

Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes, the things that give you joy and strength can also hurt you in the end. It starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear.

When you love you must not expect anything in return. If you only accept happiness, you’re not loving but using. Don’t go for looks either, it can deceive. Don’t go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile make a day seem bright.

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly on them and not to twist them to fit our own image otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in love with you because when you do you’ll have to keep those standards for the rest of your life.

A sad thing about life is that when we meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out that in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let him/her go. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person we should know to be grateful for the gift. We can’t often see the reason why we don’t always get what we want but in the end of it all we realize that what we wanted was not meant for us at all everything happens for a reason.

When you feel down because you didn’t get what you wanted just sit right and be happy because God’s thinking for something better for you. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return but what is the most painful is to love someone and never have the courage to let the person how you feel. It’s always better to have found the courage to love even if you lose in the end rather than never finding love because you were too afraid to face its challenge.

The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Love no matter how hard you find it. You won’t see it. No matter how hard you try, you won’t get it. But when you’re about to give up, it comes. Sometimes the love that we are looking for this right in front of us is too close for our eyes to see. So close your eyes to let your heart see itself.

There are things you love to hear but you can’t hear it from the person who says it with his heart just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want. There are many stars in the sky, only some are radiant to be noticed. God never closes the door without opening the window. He always gives us something better when He takes something away.

In relationships thank God when you’re hurting or crying, there you are given the chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the person and of yourself. When you grow you don’t become a better person because you experience suffering. We have no right to ask when sorrow comes. “Why does this happen to me?” unless we ask the same question or every moment of happiness that comes our way.

When God puts a tear in your eye it’s because He wants to put a rainbow in your heart. There are some things that we never want to let go of people we never want to leave behind but keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world. It’s the beginning of the new life.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life when you can’t let go you’re past failures and heartaches. To let go is not to deny but to accept. To let go is not regret the past but to grow and to live for the future. To let go is to fear less and to love more. Don’t be afraid to break someone’s heart or leave your heart broken because that’s how relationships are when you’re young they are stepping-stones for the main one.

Follow your heart. It might not right but despite the pain you will have memories that will make you smile every once and rare while. It’s better to lose the person you love now and have him later than have him now and lose him forever. Love has its time, seasons and own reasons. You can’t ask it to stay. You can only embrace it comes and be glad that a moment of your life it was yours.

Each of us is what we will. But we can never go back a day. Don’t let each moment pass you by for within the twin ding eye that moment shall go and that feeling shall die. It might be too late when you open your eyes. Don’t be so busy, the life you’re going to have that you fall to appreciate that you’ve already given. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be cause you only have one life and one chance to do all the things that you want in life.

We are never given dreams without the power to make it come true. A heart in love never loses hope but always believes in the promises of love. No matter how long the time and how far the distance never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still can take it, never say you don’t love that person anymore when you can’t let go.

True love doesn’t have a happy ending. That’s because love doesn’t have an ending…



Hope it also widen your eyes when it comes to love. I'm glad that I can share this piece to you. Anyway this is where the piece come from :

http://quoteandlyric.tumblr.com/post/408836032/a-piece-of-something

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

It must be the true meaning of love...

Everyone is looking or searching for a true love or shall we say perfect mate and everyone seems to fail. They got hurt and even cry a river because of failing.

It made me remember a story that somehow widens my eyes.

There once a girl who feels that she could never find a guy that would treat her as a woman nor give her a complete meaning of love. Yes, she had lots of boyfriends but none of them even let her feel what love really is. They said they love her but they just let her cry. But having her heart broken again and again, she never gives up and still continues to search for love.

At last she found a guy that took really good care of her, made her feel loved all the time. She thought that “this is the guy the heaven gave to her” and she was so blessed to find that guy. Every day for her seems to be perfect until days, weeks, months… and year. She thought this dream would never come to an end. The guy really loves her and she feels it.

But do really love you dreamed for can come to an end?

She dreamed and prayed for it. But what happen? Why is her heart aching? Why does she feels that they guy she longed for is stepping backward? Is it the end?

NO. She will never give up, she never will.

The guy committed such a big mistake involving a third party. He cheated on her even he was saying that he loves her and only her. He says sorry and says that he was being teased and tempted by a girl to share a “love” that suppose to be shared by two in love married person. It’s an unforgivable mistake but she chooses to accept it knowing that he could never find another man that would care for her as he did.
But she was wrong very wrong. The guy still committed the same mistake again and again because she always forgives him. It is the same scenario until three years past that she can never take it but too afraid to let go because she’s so worried that he could never find like him.

She was so down. She’s not happy with her partner anymore making the same mistake until she saw him with her own eyes that her partner has been cheating on her with the same girl and they’ve been living together. That was the time that that she call it a quits. She can’t bear it anymore. She is now awakened of her foolishness.

Many of us are blinded by the “love” we are searching for when we find it. We thought it was it but we are wrong. We need to be hurt over and over again just to be awakened of the reality that what we’ve been feeling right now is not “love” after all. We are just merely blinded by the thought.The moral lesson is in the story itself.

Well, I’m not really good at advising but hope the story can make you awakened of your deep sleep. Wake up before it’s too late.:)