It must be the true meaning of love...

Everyone is looking or searching for a true love or shall we say perfect mate and everyone seems to fail. They got hurt and even cry a river because of failing.

It made me remember a story that somehow widens my eyes.

There once a girl who feels that she could never find a guy that would treat her as a woman nor give her a complete meaning of love. Yes, she had lots of boyfriends but none of them even let her feel what love really is. They said they love her but they just let her cry. But having her heart broken again and again, she never gives up and still continues to search for love.

At last she found a guy that took really good care of her, made her feel loved all the time. She thought that “this is the guy the heaven gave to her” and she was so blessed to find that guy. Every day for her seems to be perfect until days, weeks, months… and year. She thought this dream would never come to an end. The guy really loves her and she feels it.

But do really love you dreamed for can come to an end?

She dreamed and prayed for it. But what happen? Why is her heart aching? Why does she feels that they guy she longed for is stepping backward? Is it the end?

NO. She will never give up, she never will.

The guy committed such a big mistake involving a third party. He cheated on her even he was saying that he loves her and only her. He says sorry and says that he was being teased and tempted by a girl to share a “love” that suppose to be shared by two in love married person. It’s an unforgivable mistake but she chooses to accept it knowing that he could never find another man that would care for her as he did.
But she was wrong very wrong. The guy still committed the same mistake again and again because she always forgives him. It is the same scenario until three years past that she can never take it but too afraid to let go because she’s so worried that he could never find like him.

She was so down. She’s not happy with her partner anymore making the same mistake until she saw him with her own eyes that her partner has been cheating on her with the same girl and they’ve been living together. That was the time that that she call it a quits. She can’t bear it anymore. She is now awakened of her foolishness.

Many of us are blinded by the “love” we are searching for when we find it. We thought it was it but we are wrong. We need to be hurt over and over again just to be awakened of the reality that what we’ve been feeling right now is not “love” after all. We are just merely blinded by the thought.The moral lesson is in the story itself.

Well, I’m not really good at advising but hope the story can make you awakened of your deep sleep. Wake up before it’s too late.:)