When I was in high school, i was very fond of reading essays and there's one that has been my favorite it's entitled "A piece of something". Actually, it talks about love. It really widen my eyes of what love really is. I tried to ask for my friend "Google" for help about this essay but unfortunately it's been reposted a couple of times that I couldn't find the original one (honestly just too tired to open up the sites hehe). However, I did found one which is more similar to what I have read. Here it is and enjoy! :)
A Piece Of Something..
While I was walking, I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don’t have. Then I realize that the happiest moment of all the people don’t necessarily have the best of everything: they just make the most of everything that comes along the way.
It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lost it but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives. In the gateway of my heart I put a sign that says, “No trespassing” but love came laughing and said, “I enter everywhere” Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies, love defies all reasons, love has no eyes. But definitely love is not blind love sees but it doesn’t mind. Love is when you take away feeling. The passion, the romance and you find that you still care for the person.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes, the things that give you joy and strength can also hurt you in the end. It starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear.
When you love you must not expect anything in return. If you only accept happiness, you’re not loving but using. Don’t go for looks either, it can deceive. Don’t go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile make a day seem bright.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly on them and not to twist them to fit our own image otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in love with you because when you do you’ll have to keep those standards for the rest of your life.
A sad thing about life is that when we meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out that in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let him/her go. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person we should know to be grateful for the gift. We can’t often see the reason why we don’t always get what we want but in the end of it all we realize that what we wanted was not meant for us at all everything happens for a reason.
When you feel down because you didn’t get what you wanted just sit right and be happy because God’s thinking for something better for you. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return but what is the most painful is to love someone and never have the courage to let the person how you feel. It’s always better to have found the courage to love even if you lose in the end rather than never finding love because you were too afraid to face its challenge.
The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Love no matter how hard you find it. You won’t see it. No matter how hard you try, you won’t get it. But when you’re about to give up, it comes. Sometimes the love that we are looking for this right in front of us is too close for our eyes to see. So close your eyes to let your heart see itself.
There are things you love to hear but you can’t hear it from the person who says it with his heart just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want. There are many stars in the sky, only some are radiant to be noticed. God never closes the door without opening the window. He always gives us something better when He takes something away.
In relationships thank God when you’re hurting or crying, there you are given the chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the person and of yourself. When you grow you don’t become a better person because you experience suffering. We have no right to ask when sorrow comes. “Why does this happen to me?” unless we ask the same question or every moment of happiness that comes our way.
When God puts a tear in your eye it’s because He wants to put a rainbow in your heart. There are some things that we never want to let go of people we never want to leave behind but keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world. It’s the beginning of the new life.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life when you can’t let go you’re past failures and heartaches. To let go is not to deny but to accept. To let go is not regret the past but to grow and to live for the future. To let go is to fear less and to love more. Don’t be afraid to break someone’s heart or leave your heart broken because that’s how relationships are when you’re young they are stepping-stones for the main one.
Follow your heart. It might not right but despite the pain you will have memories that will make you smile every once and rare while. It’s better to lose the person you love now and have him later than have him now and lose him forever. Love has its time, seasons and own reasons. You can’t ask it to stay. You can only embrace it comes and be glad that a moment of your life it was yours.
Each of us is what we will. But we can never go back a day. Don’t let each moment pass you by for within the twin ding eye that moment shall go and that feeling shall die. It might be too late when you open your eyes. Don’t be so busy, the life you’re going to have that you fall to appreciate that you’ve already given. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be cause you only have one life and one chance to do all the things that you want in life.
We are never given dreams without the power to make it come true. A heart in love never loses hope but always believes in the promises of love. No matter how long the time and how far the distance never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still can take it, never say you don’t love that person anymore when you can’t let go.
True love doesn’t have a happy ending. That’s because love doesn’t have an ending…
Hope it also widen your eyes when it comes to love. I'm glad that I can share this piece to you. Anyway this is where the piece come from :
http://quoteandlyric.tumblr.com/post/408836032/a-piece-of-something
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
It must be the true meaning of love...
Everyone is looking or searching for a true love or shall we say perfect mate and everyone seems to fail. They got hurt and even cry a river because of failing.
It made me remember a story that somehow widens my eyes.
There once a girl who feels that she could never find a guy that would treat her as a woman nor give her a complete meaning of love. Yes, she had lots of boyfriends but none of them even let her feel what love really is. They said they love her but they just let her cry. But having her heart broken again and again, she never gives up and still continues to search for love.
At last she found a guy that took really good care of her, made her feel loved all the time. She thought that “this is the guy the heaven gave to her” and she was so blessed to find that guy. Every day for her seems to be perfect until days, weeks, months… and year. She thought this dream would never come to an end. The guy really loves her and she feels it.
But do really love you dreamed for can come to an end?
She dreamed and prayed for it. But what happen? Why is her heart aching? Why does she feels that they guy she longed for is stepping backward? Is it the end?
NO. She will never give up, she never will.
The guy committed such a big mistake involving a third party. He cheated on her even he was saying that he loves her and only her. He says sorry and says that he was being teased and tempted by a girl to share a “love” that suppose to be shared by two in love married person. It’s an unforgivable mistake but she chooses to accept it knowing that he could never find another man that would care for her as he did.
But she was wrong very wrong. The guy still committed the same mistake again and again because she always forgives him. It is the same scenario until three years past that she can never take it but too afraid to let go because she’s so worried that he could never find like him.
She was so down. She’s not happy with her partner anymore making the same mistake until she saw him with her own eyes that her partner has been cheating on her with the same girl and they’ve been living together. That was the time that that she call it a quits. She can’t bear it anymore. She is now awakened of her foolishness.
Many of us are blinded by the “love” we are searching for when we find it. We thought it was it but we are wrong. We need to be hurt over and over again just to be awakened of the reality that what we’ve been feeling right now is not “love” after all. We are just merely blinded by the thought.The moral lesson is in the story itself.
Well, I’m not really good at advising but hope the story can make you awakened of your deep sleep. Wake up before it’s too late.:)
It made me remember a story that somehow widens my eyes.
There once a girl who feels that she could never find a guy that would treat her as a woman nor give her a complete meaning of love. Yes, she had lots of boyfriends but none of them even let her feel what love really is. They said they love her but they just let her cry. But having her heart broken again and again, she never gives up and still continues to search for love.
At last she found a guy that took really good care of her, made her feel loved all the time. She thought that “this is the guy the heaven gave to her” and she was so blessed to find that guy. Every day for her seems to be perfect until days, weeks, months… and year. She thought this dream would never come to an end. The guy really loves her and she feels it.
But do really love you dreamed for can come to an end?
She dreamed and prayed for it. But what happen? Why is her heart aching? Why does she feels that they guy she longed for is stepping backward? Is it the end?
NO. She will never give up, she never will.
The guy committed such a big mistake involving a third party. He cheated on her even he was saying that he loves her and only her. He says sorry and says that he was being teased and tempted by a girl to share a “love” that suppose to be shared by two in love married person. It’s an unforgivable mistake but she chooses to accept it knowing that he could never find another man that would care for her as he did.
But she was wrong very wrong. The guy still committed the same mistake again and again because she always forgives him. It is the same scenario until three years past that she can never take it but too afraid to let go because she’s so worried that he could never find like him.
She was so down. She’s not happy with her partner anymore making the same mistake until she saw him with her own eyes that her partner has been cheating on her with the same girl and they’ve been living together. That was the time that that she call it a quits. She can’t bear it anymore. She is now awakened of her foolishness.
Many of us are blinded by the “love” we are searching for when we find it. We thought it was it but we are wrong. We need to be hurt over and over again just to be awakened of the reality that what we’ve been feeling right now is not “love” after all. We are just merely blinded by the thought.The moral lesson is in the story itself.
Well, I’m not really good at advising but hope the story can make you awakened of your deep sleep. Wake up before it’s too late.:)
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Fury
There are times when you think everything seems perfect, you have your wonderful partner, family, home and etc. But it seems you're not still happy because of it. It seems something's really missing.
Yeah, I got my college degree but it seems it looks to them that i'm too dumb to learn things and even doubted my capacity as a human. True, it really hurts but I guess that's how life should be. You need to encounter more hurtful things to be come stronger. But isn't it to harsh to feel this everyday?
But what hurts more is when you know your capacity but then some factors held you for it. It's just a simple task but you can't go for it because of that freaking obstacle. It's just a simple obstacle but too hard to kill and there's no choice but to give up although you know you don't want to....
Yeah, I got my college degree but it seems it looks to them that i'm too dumb to learn things and even doubted my capacity as a human. True, it really hurts but I guess that's how life should be. You need to encounter more hurtful things to be come stronger. But isn't it to harsh to feel this everyday?
But what hurts more is when you know your capacity but then some factors held you for it. It's just a simple task but you can't go for it because of that freaking obstacle. It's just a simple obstacle but too hard to kill and there's no choice but to give up although you know you don't want to....
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